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Finding Your Writing Process
If you are a leader, you are in the communication business. That means, you need a process for putting thoughts into writing. Here's mine.
Gary Mayes
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Healthy Leaders are Willing to Take A Punch
Yesterday, a staff member from our church described our pastor with a uniquely insightful compliment. “He is willing to take a punch for...

Gary Mayes
Oct 10, 2020


Walking the Tightrope of Hard Conversations
Difficult conversations are not unique to leaders, but they are unavoidable if you are going to lead. Every leader needs to walk this...

Gary Mayes
Sep 23, 2020


360 Degree Mentoring and How to Find It
A BIG CLUE: The answer is not... Yoda... Gandalf… Dumbledore… Jiminy Cricket... all fictional superheroes of the mentoring world. The...

Gary Mayes
Sep 12, 2020


The New Rules of Communication :: Rule #3 — “The Pie in the Face”
Ever get cranky because people don’t read your emails? What's wrong with people? How can they be so rude? Well, you’re in good company. I...

Gary Mayes
Jul 28, 2020


How to Navigate a Season of Diminished Capacity
Leaders talk about reality. They name things as they are and they help others do the same. Therefore, it’s time we admit something to...

Gary Mayes
Jul 14, 2020


What Makes Self-Care Unselfish?
It was early Friday morning and I really wanted to get out for a bike ride. I needed the exercise, I knew the outdoors and sweat would do...

Gary Mayes
Jul 3, 2020


The Lessons that Shape Your Life
If you wanted the simplest framework for today’s post, I would call it: Learning to Pay Attention. More than fifteen years ago someone...

Gary Mayes
Jun 8, 2020


3Qs to Ignite Your Mentoring Relationships
Let’s start by blowing up crazy thinking that keeps lots of people from pouring their lives into others. The truth: you don’t have to be...

Gary Mayes
Jun 5, 2020


Dialogues of the Deaf
I am sick and tired of people who talk their way through an entire conversation without EVER asking a single question of anyone else...

Gary Mayes
Apr 30, 2020


What Am I Learning — podcast
What am I learning? Feb 7, 2018 I spoke to the staff of Rock Harbor Church, Orange County Costa Mesa on things I am learning as a leader...

Gary Mayes
Mar 20, 2018
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